Soap from ashes...

This idea was brought up at a recent church meeting, as we discussed what we would take with us should we have to leave our homes, and have only an old-fashioned hand cart to carry what we needed.  I mentioned that you could make soap from ash, so you wouldn't need to bring any...well here is the proof!

How to Make Soap from Ashes

I am sure there are many other methods, and one could always add essential oils for scent, or if you happen to push your handcart past some herbs...you could through some in!

So here is to being nice and clean, and not necessarily having to take up space in your handcart for soap!

For Your Information...

I just saw this article posted on MSN, which I guess shows how mainstream disaster prep and provident living are (becoming).

Check out the link below to see the article. It has a bunch of links in it to other articles that can help you with some info in your provident living goals.

9 Ways to Prepare for a Disaster

Mini-Challenges: Know where to go

In either every day emergencies (what do you mean your sister shoved a Q-tip up her nose?) or in disaster situations, it is important to know where you can go for help. So, our April 1 mini-challenge is to "know where to go" in case of an emergency.

There are probably several types of places you will need to "stake out". Here is a short (though by no means comprehensive) list of places you might consider locating in your area.

• Hospitals: Someday, everyone needs a hospital. Whether it is for having that baby, or taking in your toddler that decided the top bunk was a great place to jump from, you need to know where your nearest hospital is. Be sure you know where and how to get to emergency rooms or other speciality locations (such as Labor and Delivery) in the hospital. Learn the hours of entrances and exits (sometimes at night certain hospital entrances are closed). In some areas, certain types of patients can only be taken to certain hospitals. Learn where your trauma center is, any children's hospitals, or perhaps even just an urgent care center (which can generally handle "light" emergencies without a visit to an actual hospital).
• Emergency Shelters: Contact your local Red Cross or Emergency Services office to determine where shelters would likely be in an emergency. Often times schools, sporting venues, churches, or other large venues (such as reception halls or gyms) will become shelters during an emergency (I remember spending a few days at our local church during a hurricane).
• Emergency Evacuation Routes: During certain types of emergencies, roads, bridges or tunnels may be closed. Learn what your local emergency evacuation routes are, what roads will be closed, and how to get to them. You can usually contact your local town hall or Emergency Services office to learn what the routes are.
• Police Stations: Your emergency may require the intervention of law enforcement, so know where your local police station is. Know your emergency services number (in the US this is usually 911, but rural areas may not have this central service). Be sure that your children know how to get ahold of law enforcement.
• Fire Stations: Fire fighters are an important part of emergency response. They can provide fire protection and rescue, as well as medical services. Know where the closest fire station is to your house and how to get there. Also know where the closest fire hydrant is, in case this information needs to be relayed to the first responders.

Now that you have some suggestions as to what to look for (and please if you have other ideas about places you should find, post it!), here are some suggestions on what to do.

1. Keep a list of addresses and phone numbers, and hours if applicable, for these locations.
2. Mark locations on a map of the local area.
3. Mark out routes from your home to these locations on a map.
4. Practice driving (or walking if possible) to these locaitons from your home, work, or school. This will help to ensure that during an emergency that you know how to get there.
5. Ensure that everyone in your home knows about these locations. Consider having a family night to go over routes or information.

Knowledge is power, and sometimes it is what will get you through an emergency. Know, be prepared, practice, and be ready.

And now you know, and knowing is half the battle (and yes I am quoting G.I. Joe).

Mini-Challenges: Car Carried Disaster Kit

We have spent the last several challenges covering our Disaster Supplies Kits for our homes. However, we may not always be at home when an emergency or disaster strikes. So, for our March 15 mini challenge, we are going to work on putting together a car carried disaster supplies kit.

This kit will not be as large or as elaborate as your home kit, but should contain similar supplies. Some countries (and states) require that drivers carry certain emergency supplies in their car (such as warning triangles or flares, first aid kits, etc). Consider keeping all or some of these items in your car (depending on legal requirements or restrictions in your area, and your own personal needs).

• First Aid Kit: You can usually purchase one (some made "especially" for cars) at a local auto parts store or discount chain.
• Water: keep a few water bottles (make sure that they are sealed), just in case. Make sure that you check them often (for evaporation and expiration), and rotate them occassionally.
• Food: Consider items that last a long time and are high energy (and compact), such as emergency rations, granola bars, dehydrated fruit. Just make sure that you check dates and rotate often.
• Tools: Having a wrench, tie iron, jumper cables, etc can be handy should there be an emergency or you run into car trouble.
• Emergency Hammer: These speciality tools are meant to help you free yourself in the event that your car is in an accident, or especially if you become trapped in your vehicle in water. They usually contain a cutting edge (to help free stuck seat belts), a special hammer (which can break safety glass), and a light.
• Protective Gear: Some countries (like Germany) require that drivers carry at least one reflective vest in their car. Consider other items like a rain poncho or suit (nothing more miserable than changing a flat in the rain), knee pads, etc.
• Flashlight: When your car dies in the middle of the night, or you are forced to take shelter in it at night, light is almost a necessity. Consider keeping a flashlight (or two) in your car (and don't forget some extra batteries).
• Emergency Blankets: These are the really cool space age blankets that look like compacted foil rolls. They are meant to reflect heat back to your body, and are very small and easy to store. Can be especially handy if you are forced to take refuge in your car in inclement weather.
• Extra Fuel: Please be careful when considering this. Fuel must be stored in a proper, ventilated and sealed container. Storing fuel in your car can be hazardous (the fuel evaporates and leaves dangerous fumes), and in some places is illegal to carry fuel outside of your vehicles' fuel tank. If you plan to store this, please be aware of any local laws or policies, and take every precaution to ensure that the fuel is safe and secure.
• Money: You may be away from home and need food, fuel or other supplies, and with access to credit or debit cards. This can also be used to help pay traffic fines, etc. Just be sure that you don't store too much money, and that you consider placing it in different areas around your car. Anywhere you keep money should be hidden from view and preferrably secured.
• Cell Phone or two way radio: Many people carry cell phones with them, which can be handy when you need assistance or are in an emergency situation. You may also be able to store and use small two-way radios (usually under $50 and avaiable at sporting and discount stores). The radios may be a little more iffy (you never know who will be on the available channels), but can offer a second mode of contact.
  

When you have decided what you would like to carry in your car kit, consider how you will store it. Depending on the space available in your car, consider a hard sided plastic tote (I have mine in a rubber maid container under one of the bench seats in my van), or a bag with a flat and firm bottom (you may want a bag that closes with a zipper depending on your car).

No matter what you decide to store, and what you store it in, be sure that all members of your familiy know where it is, and how to use the items in it.

Mini Challenges: Spread the Word

Our monthly focus is still on the Disaster Supplies Kit (a.k.a. a 72-hour kit), as you will recall from our Feb. 15 challenge (I hope you all made your lists). This mini-challenge will be a little different.

I don't want you to buy anything, make any lists, or any plans. I am just going to challenge you to do one simple thing. Spread the word. Our March 1 mini-challenge is to make sure you talk to someone you care about, and ask about their Disaster Supplies Kit.

It can be anyone...it can be more than ONE anyone. Maybe another parent from school, that strange guy in the next cubicle over, your next door neighbor, a family member, a friend. It doesn't matter who you choose.

Provident Living is about more than just getting our little corner of the universe neat and tidy and ready for anything. We also have a responsibility to help others get ready as well. The first step in that process is getting the word out.

A Disaster Supplies Kit is an important part of being prepared, and one that most people are familiar with. Pick your person (or persons). Share the resources we've pointed out (or ones that you have found on your own). Show them the sites you've learned about. Show them this blog. Show them your lists or your kits (if you are ahead of me and already have one done!). Share your ideas about Provident Living or emergency preparedness. Whatever path you take, please don't let another day pass before you share with someone else.

If each of us makes an effort to reach out, to share knowledge, then there is hope that more people will begin to take notice and to get their own lives and homes ready. It may not seem like much, but any great work is built brick by brick, person by person.

So, go out. Share your ideas. Spread the word.

Mini Challenges: Plan Out Your Disaster Supplies Kit

Once known as a 72-hour kit (so called because of the assumed response time of government emergency services), a Disaster Supplies Kit is an important part of any Disaster Planning. Our Feb. 15, mini-challenge will be to plan out your Disaster Supplies Kit.

That will entail reviewing available documents and resources for ideas and suggestions, making a list of items you have available and a list of items you will need to acquire.

While what your kit contains is dependent on your specific situation, there are recommendations for items that you need. Keep in mind that you should not store items that are dependent on water or electrical services (you have to assume that in the immediate aftermath of a disaster, these services will be unavailable).

Items That You Need

• Water: You should store at least 1 gallon per person per day. This should be drinking quality water. It might also be wise to store some form of water purification (such as a filtration system or iodine tablets).
• Food: While you may have food stored in your home, in your fridge, or in your freezer, you kit should contain at least three days worth of nutritious food. Since you may be required to leave your home, this food should be non-perishable and portable. You can store canned goods (be considerate of weight in case of evacuation), dehydrated or freeze dried foods, or even emergency food rations. If you are using canned goods, don't forget the manual can opener!
• First Aid Kit: This is one of the most important parts of the kit. As emergency services and medical services may not be available or quick in response, before, during or after a disaster, it is important that you be able to treat basic injuries on your own. You should have basic items such as bandages, antiseptics (alcohol wipes etc), antibiotic cream (such as neosporin), gauze, burn creams, tweezers, etc. You can usually buy pre-packaged first aid kits at many discount, sporting goods, and medical supply stores.
• Sheltering Supplies: You may need to shelter in place during a disaster. Your kit should contain items like dust masks (available at most home supply stores, and used to help filter low quality air), plastic sheeting, and duct tape (both used to help seal off your shelter).
• Emergency Radio: As you are likely to lose your electrical services, and you will need to be informed of any directives, news or emergency messages, it is important to have an emergency radio. These are usually battery operated or hand cranked, and are available at many retail outlets (here is an example of an Emergency Radio). If you choose a battery operated model, please remember to include additional batteries in your kit. These radios usually include access to national weather information and emergency services information.
• Clothing: As you may be required to evacuate in the event of a disaster, and you may not have time to pack, it is important to keep an extra set of warm clothes (even if you live in a warm area) and sturdy shoes in your kit to ensure you'll be okay in the event of an evacuation. It may also be suggested to have several pairs of undergarments and socks, as these items more often get soiled and may need to be changed more often.
• Flashlight: As you will likely be without power it will be important to have a source of light, especially if you are required to evacuate or the disaster leaves significant debris. Remember to also store extra batteries for your flashlight.
• Medications: This includes over-the-counter (like tylenol) and prescription medications. As you will likely not have access to a pharmacy or drug store, be sure to include a week's supply of medications. Also keep a list of all medications you take and their dosages, any allergies you may have, all of your doctors' names, and contact information for nearby hospitals.
• Money: Since banks will likely be closed in the event of a disaster, and without electricity systems using debit or credit cards will not function, it is important to have cash on hand to help get supplies. Consider having small bills (such as one dollar bills) and change (such as quarters), to allow you access to vending machines and services during a disaster or evacuation.
• Personal Documents: Remember our last challenge? Well it is important to keep these documents (or at least copies of them) in your disaster supplies kit....especially in the event of an evacuation. Store them in a waterproof container.
• Sanitary Supplies: Circumstances during a disaster may not lend themselves to sanitary conditions, and you may have specific circumstances that require special sanitary needs, so keeping sanitary supplies is important. Consider items like feminine hygiene products, toilet paper, moist towellettes, garbage bags and ties, alcohol and other disinfectants. Consider storing some bleach along with a medicine dropper. According to the Red Cross, when diluted nine parts water to one part bleach, bleach can be used as a disinfectant. Or in an emergency, you can use it to treat water by using 16 drops of regular household liquid bleach per gallon of water. Remember not to use scented, color safe or bleaches with added cleaners.
• Tools: During an emergency you may need to do repairs, shut off services (such as your gas main), or put up shelter. It is important to have basic tools available. Consider storing items such as an adjustable wrench, screwdrivers, pliers, or even a hammer. Having the ubiquitous duct tape on hand isn't a bad idea either.
• Maps: Having maps of the local area will be important. Consider marking evacuation routes, expected road closures, and alternate paths away from your home. You can also mark meeting points, evacuation centers, family members, etc.
• Emergency Contact Information: In general your emergency plan should include having people to call. You should store this list of emergency contacts in your kit. Keep in mind that it will likely be easier to make a long distance (out of area) call during an emergency.
• Mess Supplies: As you will need to consume the food in your kit, consider storing some type of mess supplies. Keep either reusable items (available at sporting goods and camping stores) or paper plates, bowls, and utensils. Also consider keeping napkins or paper towels.
• Matches: You may need to start a fire for warmth/cooking. Consider keeping matches (especially waterproof ones) in your kit.
• Whistle: During an emergency you may become lost, trapped, or in need of assistance. Store a whistle to help you contact rescuers, neighbors or emergency personnel.
• Fire Extinguisher: While you should always have this on hand, it is important to remember it as part of your disaster kit. Fire and rescue services may not be available during a disaster. You will need to be able to care for you home and family as best as possible on your own.
• Paper and Writing Utensil: You may need to record emergency directions, addresses etc. Keep a small notepad and a pen or pencil in your kit.
• Blanket or Sleeping Bag: If you need to evacuate, you will need to have items to keep you warm while you sleep. While some emergency shelters may offer these, if you have to shelter in place in your own home or car, you will need to have these items.
• Baby Supplies: If your family includes an infant or baby, remember to include items such as forumula, diapers and wipes.
• Pet Supplies: If you have pets, keep them in mind. Store some pet foods, leashes, crates/kennels, and other items necessary to care for your pet.
• Emergency Reference Materials: Keep a copy of a first aid guide, your local evacuation plan, your family emergency plan, or other disaster related materials in your kit.
• Entertainment: You may be on your own for a while, without access to the normal venues for entertainment. Consider keeping games, puzzles, books, coloring supplies, etc. to help keep yourself busy. This can be especially important if you have small children.

Consider these guidelines, and others available from the Red Cross and Ready.gov, to help get your list together. Talk to your family about items they think should be included.

Another imporant item to consider for your kit is storage. You should store your kit in a secure (preferrably water proof) and portable (in case of an evacuation) container. Consider using a plastic tote (think something like Rubbermaid), a hiking back pack, a ruck sack (or sea bag), or several smaller back packs.

So get going, get your list together, and get ready for our next challenge!

Family Finances Lesson - Additional Resources

As part of his lesson, my friend had a nice hand out with some additional resources on the subject. I've reprinted the resource list with his permission.

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Recommended Resources

Additional Reading/Research

The book, “Your Money or Your Life” is considered to be a classic read on the subject. It talks about many of the principles I have mentioned in greater detail. The authors have used these principles (and several others) to become what they call “financially independent”. I highly recommend this book, but would caveat that some of their points are a little over zealously made and some of their assumptions are questionable. Still, many of the economic points are sound and good guidelines. Many of the activities they suggest are very effective.

Suzie Orman – For those with AFN, her program is broadcast on Sunday at several times during the day including 11 am Sunday on Channel 5. Susie is a well respected personal finance guru whose expertise comes from personal experience rather than academic training. I have never seen Susie make statements contrary to the core principles I have mentioned in dealing with finance and consider her opinion to be a good check on my own thinking.

The church's Provident Living website has a “family finances” section that covers the basics and provides church guidance concerning some of these topics.

Several other people have pursued similar interest in living frugally. Several of these people have blogs. One such blog is thesimpledollar.com. Another is http://elasticdollar.blogspot.com/

Tools

Recording and Tracking Expenses

Expense calendar – create a table with several columns. Each column is an expense category. Every row is either an individual expense or a time period, depending on what works best for you. In the appropriate cell in the table, record the cost amounts for the expense or the time period in question. For instance, if I were to buy $80 groceries on a particular date, I might make a row for the expenditure and put the “$80” in the column for groceries.

Expense notebook – carry in your pocket a notebook and pen. When you spend money, record the date, amount, location, category of the expense and any other information you might feel you need. At the end of the month, lay out each of these expenses into categories and see where your money is going. This is similar to the General Journal used in standard accounting practices.

Credit Cards – buy everything on your credit card (buy only what you have real money for). When you spend the money, deduct it from your funds as if it was paid on that day. Place the money aside to pay the bill. Use your credit card statement as record of expenses. Pay it off every month.

Budgets

The Envelope Method – Every pay day, withdraw in cash your budgetary items (things you wouldn't pay other ways) and place your budget amounts into envelopes labeled with the budget categories. When the money is gone, so is the budget item.

“Virtual” Accounts – create and track individual “account” balances with each account corresponding to a budget category. Every payday, deposit your budgetary amounts into each of these virtual accounts. Every month or so, verify that the total of your virtual account balances is equivalent to the total of your real bank account balances. If not, find and correct the discrepancy.

Software

To implement many of the activities that I have mentioned, you don't need any fancy software, just pen and paper. That said, software CAN be a benefit to you and make things easier if you do it right.

Spreadsheet programs – MS Excel, OpenOffice Calc, Gnumeric – These present information in a table format and allow you to specify functions in certain cells based on the value of other cells. For instance, if you want to place the sum of cells A1 and A2 in cell A3, you would put the formula “=A1+A2” or “=SUM(A1:A2)” in cell A3 and the program would do the work. Expense Calendars and Virtual account registers can be implemented using spreadsheet programs. MS Excel is perhaps the most functional for this purpose as information can be summarized from different sheets onto one.

Budget Programs – GNUcash, MS Money, Quicken – Can be useful in tracking expenses and implementing budgets. I use GNUcash as my primary tracking mechanism and have adapted it to tracking virtual accounts.

“My” Guidance

Pay Tithing – This is the NUMBER ONE thing I would emphasize. Pay an honest tithe, whatever this means to you (Malachi 3:10). Pay a generous fast offering.

Counsel with your spouse and older children – Make managing your finances a family affair. Your spouse should be an EQUAL partner. Proposals can be worked out individually but decisions should be made together or not at all. Without spousal support YOU WILL FAIL. Older children should be involved so that they can learn the skills themselves. They might also be able to give valuable insight.

Avoid Debt – There are acceptable forms of debt. Mortgages, Student Loans, and other loans to cover vital needs in times of crisis are all acceptable. However, care should be taken to avoid excesses and to pay down or eliminate even these types of debt as soon as possible. Pay off the most costly debts first. Use a debt reduction calendar if necessary.

Manage your money – Track your expenses, take control of your spending, budget you funds as appropriate to meet your needs without over extending yourself. Set up savings goals and track them using methods that work for you. Change them over time as things change and you gain experience in what works for you and what doesn't.

Build a Reserve – Save up enough money to cover your expenses for AT LEAST 6 months. Due to recent challenges in the economy, many experts are suggesting that these reserves be increased to at least 8 months, if not 12 months.

Pay yourself for anticipated large expenses – We own our own car. We don't have a car loan on it. However, we still have a car payment. Why? Eventually the car will wear out and need to be replaced. By paying ourselves a car payment now, we will have the money to replace the car with an equivalent or better vehicle without going into debt when that time comes.

Family Finances Lesson

The following is the outline for a lesson that was given by a friend, at meeting in our church. The lesson was meant to give some guidelines on family finances. While it does contain some advice specific to counsel given by our church leaders, the advice is pertinent to anyone.

The text has been reprinted with his permission.

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Key Principles

Money is Life Energy – Money is one form of resource that we have available to help us meet our needs. It represents “Life Energy”.

Money represents one of a number of resources – Time, physical work, possessions, skills, and talents represent other resources. Work and School are examples of ways to transform resources from one type to another. The resources we have are the means we are given to take care of our stewardship and we will be held accountable for how well we use them to that effect.

Think for yourself, question “necessary” expenses, avoid “keeping up with the Jones's” – Our society emphasizes consumerism and our role as consumers of the product of industry. We are taught to want more. This is the reason that the model year concept for cars was invented. Anyone else see a problem with this?

We do need things in order to have a happy and productive life. For instance, I wrote my notes on a computer. I photocopied my handouts to create copies for everyone. I researched some of this information on the internet and I drove to church. These activities all required things.

However, there comes a point where things become a burden. The cost of owning an item includes acquisition, maintenance, and disposal, not just acquisition. These costs add up. Items also draw away time and other resources. If they are not worth these resources, they are a burden and should be avoided.

Guidance

Pay Tithing – This is the NUMBER ONE thing I would emphasize. Pay an honest tithe, whatever this means to you (Malachi 3:10). Pay a generous fast offering.

That said, “To pay tithes and offerings while ignoring the balance of Heavenly Father’s advice concerning sound judgment in family finances will probably cause the windows of heaven to stick a little bit.” - Robert L. Simpson May 1982

Counsel with your spouse and older children – Make managing your finances a family affair. Your spouse should be an EQUAL partner. Proposals can be worked out individually but decisions should be made together or not at all. Without spousal support YOU WILL FAIL. Older children should be involved so that they can learn the skills themselves. They might also be able to give valuable insight.

Avoid Debt – There are acceptable forms of debt. Mortgages, Student Loans, and other loans to cover vital needs in times of crisis are all acceptable. However, care should be taken to avoid excesses and to pay down or eliminate even these types of debt as soon as possible. Pay off the most costly debts first. Use a debt reduction calendar if necessary.

Manage your money – Track your expenses, take control of your spending, budget you funds as appropriate to meet your needs without over extending yourself. Set up savings goals and track them. Use methods that work for you. Change them over time as things change and you gain experience.

Build a Reserve – Save up enough money to cover your expenses for AT LEAST 6 months. Due to recent challenges in the economy, many are suggesting that these reserves be increased to at least 8 months, if not 12 months.

Pay yourself for anticipated large expenses – We own our own car. We don't have a car loan on it. However, we still have a car payment. Why? Eventually the car will wear out and need to be replaced. By paying ourselves a car payment now, we will have the money to replace the car with an equivalent or better vehicle without going into debt when that time comes.

Implementation

Reconcile with the past

The first step is to determine where your money is going or where it has gone. There are a number of aspects to this, do what works for you.

Expense Calendar – Create a table with several columns. Each column is an expense category. Every row is either an individual expense or a time period, depending on what works best for you. In the appropriate cell in the table, record the cost amounts for the expense or the time period in question. For instance, if I were to buy $80 groceries on a particular date, I might make a row for the expenditure and put the “$80” in the column for groceries.

Expense notebook – carry in your pocket a notebook and pen. When you spend money, record the date, amount, location, category of the expense and any other information you might feel you need. At the end of the month, lay out each of these expenses into categories and see where your money is going.

Credit Cards – buy everything on your credit card (buy only what you have real money for). Use your credit card statement as record of expenses. Pay it off every month.

Know where you want to go

After you have an idea of where you are, think about where you want to go. Following the advice of the General Authorities is a good start:

Pay off your debt – Recognize what debt is costing you and if the costs exceed what you are getting from other investments, work to reduce it. Use of a debt reduction calendar is a good start for determining how you can do this. Set goals for how much you will pay off and when. Target your most expensive debts first.

Build up a 6-12 month reserve – The general authorities recommend a number of protective measures. For instance, a one year supply of food. This is in the same vein. The idea is to provide a means to weather the hardships of job loss, transition or other economic hardship.

Look towards other goals – Other objectives are worth considering, including home ownership or upgrade, education and vehicle replacement. Look at your family needs and estimate what they will cost to achieve.

Determine how you will get there

“Those who have little, if they are good at managing, must be counted among the rich” - Socrates

Now that you know what you are spending, where it is going and where you want to be, you need to determine how to get there. You need to make conscious decisions to act. You must decide where YOU want your money to actually go. You have a couple of alternatives.

Earn more than you spend – Whatever methods you end up using, aim to have a surplus. You will need to have a surplus to work towards where you want to be. There are several ways to create a surplus, many of them are not exclusively financial. For instance, learning to take care of your personal vehicle can help you reduce or eliminate the amount of money you might pay to professional mechanics.

Use a Budget – This is the simplest way forward. The concept is that you determine how much money you have to deal with, then you divide it into different categories of where you want it to go. The total sum of these categories should be the same or less than your available income. At the end of the budget period, you see how well you did by recording your actual expenses. You then adjust your next budget as needed. Any money left over goes to savings.

Provident Living has an example budget that you can use as a starting point. If you are interested in this approach, and it is a good one to start with, download the budget worksheet and see how well it fits your own. Then, build your own with categories appropriate to your needs and goals.

The Envelope Method – Use different envelopes for different budgetary categories. At the beginning of each period, place your budgetary amount into each envelope. When the money is gone, so is your spending in that category.

Virtual Accounts – Use a ledger for each budget category, creating an account. Money not spend during one period is available for the next. This way, you can track deposits towards larger items. For instance, you may pay your home owner's insurance once a year. If this is say, $360/yr, you could budget $30 a month and track it in a ledger.

Example

In the beginning

Nothing at all – When we were married, I had $12k in a bank account to pay for school and Sandra had $12k in student loans. We had no budget and didn't know where our money was going, only that proceeds from our jobs were exceeded by our expenses. At the same time, our diet consisted primarily of $0.25 boxes of Mac & Cheese. Something had to change.

Paper and Pencil

Expense Calendar – My boss, Chad Rucker, took time to council with me on the subject. He introduced me to the Expense Calendar. We used it to find out where the money was going.

Virtual Accounts – We attempted to budget using a worksheet similar to the one provided on provident living. It didn't work. We felt that we were not seeing any reward for doing well in any particular category. It was as if when we managed to stay below expense in one category, we rewarded that effort by budgeting less of it during the next category. Virtual Accounts helped us solve this problem. The concept is that when we put money in a virtual account and DON'T spend it, the money is available next cycle for use in the same category. Over time, if the expense builds up an excess in the category's virtual account, we reduce the amount going in and still feel rewarded.

Other than budgetary categories, virtual accounts exist to hold funds that are obligated. This includes things like money to pay the credit card bill.

Expense Ledgers – Using ledgers allowed us to track expenses in each virtual account, thus making it easier to show where the money is going an analyze our overall cash flow.

The Computer Age

Spreadsheets – By moving to spreadsheets, we take advantage of the computer's math capabilities to reduce the amount of work needed. Each sheet becomes a ledger. One sheet is used to summarize the information and automatically check the calculations against real account balances.

GNUcash – By creating ledgers for each of the bank accounts and then sub accounts for each of the virtual accounts in the physical accounts, it was even easier to keep the balances of the virtual accounts consistent with reality.

Helper Accounts – By adding an “adjustment” account to each of the physical accounts, money could physically reside in one account but be credited in another. This allowed for better tracking of the true balance of virtual accounts. Ever so often, the balance of all “adjustment” accounts need to be added up as a check against errors. The total of all adjustment accounts must equate to zero.

Other Principles

Luxuries can be necessities – Some things that may seem to be luxuries on the surface can actually be great for your health, sanity and well being. Don't judge something as a needless luxury or be too spend thrifty. Be frugal. Have modest and affordable release valves so that the stresses involved in being financially disciplined don't cause you to make big mistakes here and there. I speak from experience.

Be Happy about paying taxes, sad if you get a refund – A refund means you gave the government an interest free loan.

Don't “create” needless deductions – Take advantage of all deductions and credits you have, but don't go out of your way to create new deductions. This is like paying someone $10 to get $1 in return. Don't do it (or if you really want the same effect, I'll give you the same deal.)

Additional Resources

These are some additional resources that might help in developing your solution.

Non Church Resources:

Your Money or Your Life

Suzie Orman

Church Resources

Provident Living Website

One for the Money: Guide to Family Finance by Marvin J. Ashton

“Happily Living within Our Means” - January 2008 Ensign

“Personal and Family Financial Preparedness” - May 1979 Ensign

“Let Him do it with Simplicity” - Nov 2008 Ensign – Discusses some of the basic needs that we have.

“A Lasting Marriage” - May 1982 Ensign – Robert L. Simpson

“Catching the Vision of Self Reliance” May 1986 Ensign

Internet Coupons

I've had several people ask me about coupons for grocery items. Coupons can be a great tool to help you gather items for your Family Home Storage. You can get some coupons from the store (sometimes posted near the items). For those of you who have a major US newspaper in your area, the Sunday edition usually has coupons in it as well.

I also use internet coupons. For most internet coupons sites, you must be using a Windows based OS platform (like XP or Vista). You will have to download a program which monitors your printing, allows you to print, etc.

There are tons of great sites out there for internet coupons. Most of them are related to grocery items, but there are some for other items. I've listed some of my favorites below.

Most sites allow you to print only two copies of each coupon within a certain time period (usually about a month).

Remember to check with your local stores to make sure that they accept these coupons. Many do, but some may require a dot scan barcode beneath the expiration date. You can usually check the store's website (or ask at customer service) for their coupon policies.


Coupons.Com
This site provides a variety of coupons, for a range of products.

Very Best Kids
Sign up for their newsletter, and they will include coupons for several Nestle products (usually totaling about $8) a month.

Betty Crocker
Some great coupons for products we buy often, especially cereal and baking products. Also a great source for recipes.

Pillsbury
This is run by the same company that produces Betty Crocker, so you'll find some duplicate coupons on this one, but they are still good!

Box Tops for Education
This site is also run by General Mills, and duplicates some of the coupons from the Betty Crocker and Pillsbury site. The nice thing about this one, is that by signing up, you can earn Box Tops, which can be given to the school of your choice to provide them with additional income. All the products which have coupons on this site also have boxtops on their packaging, so remember to clip them and give back to your schools!

Smart Source
Like Coupons.com, this is a general grocery coupon site.

I also believe that the commissary's website also carries a few internet coupons.

If you discover any new sites for coupons, let me know!

Monthly Focus: Family Home Storage - Clarification

I wanted to make a quick clarification on the information I sent out earlier. You may have noticed the following entry:

• "luxuries"- candies, marshmallows, alcohol, chocolate

I am by no means advocating that you, as members of the church, purchase or store alcohol. My suggestion was two pronged.

First, the luxury items are meant to be a "distraction" during a difficult time or an emergency. From a psychological perspective, wouldn't a hard time pass much easier if you could still indulge in a treat once in a while?

Second, during a true dire emergency, it may be possible to barter or trade these luxury items for staple items (like flour or produce), which you may need. It is my personal belief that certain people will still want to feed their vices, even when in dire straits.

I have met many members of the church who purchase items (such as alcohol, cigarettes, chocolate), and store them in their Family Home Storage, with the sole purpose of having "high value" items to barter with. Should you take this approach? I can't say. That would be a very personal decision, and one you would have to each make yourselves.

Preparing your Family Home Storage is a necessary step, but what items (even "luxury" ones) you choose to store is entirely up to you and your family. Look at the guidelines that have been offered. Follow your intstincts and moral values. Prepare in a way that meets your needs and helps you feel comfortable.

Sorry for any confusion or upset.